Children often remain with parents in their home, so
it is the responsibility of the parents to fulfill the basic needs/educational needs
of their children. Moreover parents are always in the favor of controlled life
of their children. They also produce such atmosphere at home which does not
affect the growth and Education of their children. Therefore, parents always
engage themselves to motivate their children for their better success through;
• Discussing with their children about the benefits
of education. • Discussing with their children about their family background.
• Parents always engage themselves in giving such other examples to their children about school related topics.
A parent can
offer many of these beneficial, extrinsic, and motivational factors, but one
important part is the context and manner in which the motivation is given
/received. Mainly, an underlying self-efficacy must always be present because
if a child believes she can do well, then he/she will. If a student believes
that a goal is unattainable, then there is really no need to attempt to achieve
that goal. Extrinsic motivation causes students to perceive more goals as
unattainable, whereas and intrinsically motivated student will see very few
goals as unattainable because that student believes that anything is possible
with effort. This is where parental involvement becomes crucial. Encouragement
rather than reward will cue a child in to intrinsic motivation. Furthermore,
encouragement can be a form of reward because it displays one of the most basic
forms of reward: attention. Children, of course, need more than pats on the
back and positive sayings to encourage them and many other forms of
encouragement exist. "Curiosity killed the cat" is a clich? That
could not be farther from the truth because curiosity is one of the strongest
motivators with regards to the constant need for satisfaction. This need will
intrinsically motivate children to discover and understand new concepts that
otherwise would remain foreign territory. The most difficult aspect of helping
a child is having the patience to allow discovery. Telling a child the answer
helps them complete the assignment, but severely decreases their understanding.
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